"Adopting a Child won't change the world; but for that Child the world will change."

Saturday, 15 September 2007

Another day at the Show










We left home at 7:50am to pick up M's friend.

It was great weather, a little windy, but sunny! We met some friends at about 11am.
We had a couple of rides. Watched a singing and dancing stage show with Humphrey Bear (sorry overseas readers, you'll have no idea who this is, he's a "Barney" style Bear who doesn't talk, uses hand motions to communicate, but has a young chickie singing, dancing and interpreting for him! - he's been around since I was a wee lass!) We held some more chickens, goats, pigs, ducks and patted some dogs & some calves. We sampled local foods (yummo!). Bought a show bag. Watched some wood chopping champions. Ate hot chips, drank a couple of cappacino's. Saw a trapeze display. Sampled some dairy products and had a milk shake. Played a couple of (those rip-off) games. Won a couple of pathetic soft toys. Made our own teddies, and picked out an outfit for them. Watched the grand parade of the winning animals. Watched the V8 utes race. Watched the freestyle motorbike stunt jumping. Had a couple more rides. And finished the night off by watching the fireworks display. Home, in bed... exhausted... at 1045pm.


H is the one on the left hand slide, in the grey tee... can't go down like a "normal" kid, goes down on his back, head first!



M is a very brave soul and goes on ANY ride... alone! I did go on a ride with her in the afternoon... I was very scared, and had fingernails embedded in my palms when I got off!!! She said, "Yeah, you wouldn't stop screamin'! I wasn't scary, just really cool!" Ahhh... to be 10 again?
**I apologise it's on it's side! M is wearing a pink top, and is sitting on the left hand end of a row... not sure if you can spot her!**

Thursday, 13 September 2007

Diagnosis=Depressed Remedy=Shopping

What is a girl to do? I've had a major headache all day, and I think I'm going to explode! Work, adoption, lack of sleep... I've had enough!


So, I had an hour to kill before I picked the wee-ones up from school, and I needed to get an Engagement pressie for some friends, so off I trundled to the shops!


Shopping List:

Saucepans for Engagement present


CheckOut:

Quilt

Quilt Cover

Bed Sheets for M

Baby keys

"Who Loves Baby" soft chewy album

Baby Seater (this thing is awesome!!!)


oh yeah, and saucepans.


Linen was 50% off, Nursery stuff 30% off... the bugga's why do they put those big sale signs up, it sucks me in EVERYTIME! I'm really rapt with the baby gear. The little baby keys - $3! Who loves baby album $10 (gotta have one of these for the care package! I actually have one coz the superstar Jodie Ho-Ho, no longer blogging, sent me one from California! So this one is for my Secret Pal). I digress, I saw the Baby Seater AGES ago, and was looking at similar ones on ebay, then they disappeared from Target. Well, when I saw the 30% off sign, I walked the baby aisles - and saw it! Its back! AND it's cheaper!!! I'm sure when I saw it over a year ago it was about $24... I bought it today, on sale, for $7!!! Friggin fantastic!! What's more its about the size of my hand! So tiny to pack, and take to China!!!




My headache still lingers, but I have a happiness inside... I got great bargains!!!

Monday, 10 September 2007

Royal Show





Another day at the Show. It was freeeeeezing today, it rained and the wind was blowing from the Arctic!
Back there again later in the week - so I'll try and get some "ride" shots for ya!

Sunday, 9 September 2007

"The Wait"

It sounds like a movie or book title doesn't it? In the "Adoption Community", "The Wait" refers to the time from when your file is sent to Country of your adoption choice, until the time you receive your Allocation or Referral (photo, paperwork, medical information about the child the country has matched with your family file). "The Wait" varies from Country to Country. One (of the many) reasons we decided to adopt from China, was because "the wait" was, at the time, 6 months. And as our fortune/Murphys Law/destiny/fate would have it... it's now a minimum of about 22 months, and increasing with each passing month. Lucky us. On a less selfish note, truly, it is very lucky for the children, because more families are sending files to adopt these beautiful family-less children.

So why am I rambling? Who knows!!! I can only say, that some days "The Wait"/our child/travelling etc is ALL that occupies my mind. Trust me, not alot happens up there, so it can't be a bad thing?!!!

Today is one of those days. I was just folding about 6 loads of washing, when I felt the urge to come share this with you!!! (lucky you?!!) Yes folks, I'm obsessing about names again! Oh my, you are going to be SOOO tired of me, and you'll all be praying that we receive our referral soon... coz all this agonizing will be over!!! My friends have just returned home, from China, with there sweetpea daughter... and I can't stop thinking, of what it will be like for us. Will it be hot or cold? Which Province is our little one from? What will her Chinese name be? (I'm very odd, because I think about her Chinese name alot! I love reading new referrals, just to see what their children's Chinese name is! Weird, hey?) Yes... there's alot to think about... hubs keeps saying to stop stressing/thinking about it, coz we can't change it or do anything about it... but I can't stop.

So here are my "new" names, that I've thought of in the last week or so... do you like them?
Skyla (means Scholar) - T loves the name Skye but with our surname, it's just wrong. (a bit like calling your child Sandy if your surname was Beach). Anyway, he chose the name Bella, which I'm now disliking coz every second girl is named Isabella or Bella, where I live... so I combined the two names! I haven't run it by him yet... so we'll see if its a goer or not!

Kyla (means narrow) - I actually come up with this one after reading a new referral, and the little girl's Chinese name was Kai (pronounced Ky).

Ella (means young girl) - is quite popular here, but not as "common" as Bella!

Yes, I do have a "thing" for names ending in "la"!!! I was talking with a very good friend the other day, and she said, "Oooo wouldn't it be nice if your girls names ended the same", so that got me thinking... (as if I wasn't thinking enough, already?!!!) And from my other list, I'm still loving Lila and Ruby (M LOVES Ruby... but it's winning over Daddy that is proving a challenge).

Friday, 7 September 2007

What have I missed?

I just realised it's been nearly a week since I've posted! I've been out, every single day, come home to do homework and make tea, and then run the kids around to various activities... I'm pooped! I haven't even had time to read any of my favourite blogs - *shock*horror*!!!

I sat staring at my calendar and realised, that families will have gotten their referrals this week! I flicked over to Rum0ur Queen to peruse the sweeties, then went to CC*@@ to see that they'd only gotten to the 25 Nov 2005. Crap. 4 days worth of files. Ho-hum. I was soooo sure we'd be cracking Dec this month.

I went on excursion with M's class this week and we visited a "pioneer village". A village set up of our ancestors style of housing, furniture, cars, tractors, trains etc. We had a fantastic time. I took 4 girls up in my car, so we had to stay as a group as we toured around the village, answering our worksheet.

The first pic, the girls are in an "olden day" gaol (or jail, for the US contingent!) M's the one with her mouth wide open!!!



The second pic: I thought I'd be a tricky Mummy, and get the girls to put their heads in a row, on the pole of "Head St"... didn't quite work, the 3rd girl had long hair, so you can't even see the 4th girl!!!

Sunday, 2 September 2007

Busy, busy, busy!

Holy Cow! I need another weekend just to recover from this one!!!


Friday night, after school, we went to our China Adoption Support Group's "Chinese Calligraphy" seminar. There was a visiting "world famous" Calligraphy man, Mr Wu, visiting from China. He spoke to us (via an interpreter!) about his work, and where he is from. He showed us photos of his home town and his work. He is very famous in China, and his Calligraphy is engraved in Stone and Wood at many Landmarks (this distinguishes him as well respected in his field). We all got to have a go at Calligraphy too. Pretty much, we all sucked, but it was a fantastic and unique experience. H has just discovered how to use my camera, and he took and "abstract" photo of his Calligraphy! I was impressed with his photography!







Saturday I shovelled mulch onto the garden... thank heavens H didn't whip the camera out to capture this moment on film!!! Saturday night, our school had a "Festival of Arts", the kids got to enter artwork and/or do some form of dance/musical performance. It was a fantastic night. M, entered a fantastic painting she did, and she also played the piano. She was a champion, and didn't make any mistakes! You go, Girl!






Then Sunday was the big day... FATHERS DAY! It's the first time in more years than I can remember, that we actually got to spend the day WITH T & his Dad. Usually Fathers Day is during the Royal Show, which both the fellas work at, and we don't really get to see them, let alone spend much time with them. BUT This year was different, as the Show starts next Friday! I was trying to think of something unique to do, not the boring old dinner at a fancy restaurant where you pay too much, in a crowded room, for very ordinary food!!! I surprised myself by suggesting we go to Second Valley, a secluded little beach with a Jetty for fishing. We went with T's folks and his sister and her 5 kidlets! We had a fabulous time!


Create Your Own

Thursday, 30 August 2007

Pride and Joy


My pride and joy... my hubs and kids.

Hub's pride and joy... his recently purchased racing P0rsche

Don't go gettin too excited that we must be loaded coz he bought a P0rsche, it's a VERY ordinary car. It doesn't even have door trims, and there's just a checker-plate steel thing for the floor!!! There's no stereo, or cupholders. No air-con. But... it is RED and it does have a turbo!!! At least he's got his priorities in order?!!


Hubs just picked up his race suit, and dolled himself up so we could have a squiz, and feel special that we have a racing champion (to be) in our midst!!!
We love you, Honey - you go, Spunky Man!


Wednesday, 29 August 2007

Fortunes & Cookies

**Beware, many dodgey "puns" contained in this post!**



On the way to school, I call into pick our mail up from our post box. I got a "parcel" card - oooo, how exciting! I thought my Secret Pal might've sent something? Wrong! It was from America! Ooooo, this really IS exciting?!!! The gorgeous CJ, sent our little girl some beeeeeeautiful surprises! This is Chester. I think Chester is a good name for a pig, don't you? I had a tough time deciding between Chester or Caffeine (check out those eyes!), but H had trouble pronouncing the later - so it's Chester the Pig!










And accompanying Chester, was one of the prettiest, soft dolls EVA! It's Awake Annie.... but wait....

























When she rolls over... she's Asleep Annie!!! Oh my goodness, the squishy loveyness of them is just too much for me to bear (or should I say to much to pig?!!!)
























Thank you, thank you , thank you CJ! You are such a sweetheart!



Something looks a little outta place?!! Ahhh - Chester has a ribbon!









Then the rest of my day consisted of processing wages ~ joy.


I picked the kidlets up, and said to M, maybe she could make some cookies for Girl Guides, to earn her Cooking Badge. She whipped up a batch like a champion! Pity they're all for the Guide troop - none for us!












While she was rolling the cookie dough into balls, I shot up the road to the Chinese Restaurant to pick up some take away. I don't normally buy Fortune Cookies, coz they cost a fortune, $3.50 for a pack of 6 ~ but I succumbed and bought a pack tonight. I cracked mine open, this is what it said:










Just in case you can't read it, it says "You will win success in whatever calling you adopt".... interesting choice of words?!!

Monday, 27 August 2007

Middle names

Well, I got tagged, for another "passing the time" meme!!! I have no clue what the hell meme means, but all the other bloggers are saying, so I thought I'd be super-cool and say it too... isn't it a pity when the really "uncool" kids start trying to be cool?!!!

Here's the story:You have to post these rules before you give the facts.
1) Players, you must list one fact that is somehow relevant to your life for each letter of your middle name. If you don’t have a middle name, use the middle name you would have liked to have had.
2) When you are tagged you need to write your own blog post containing your own middle name game facts.
3) At the end of your blog post, you need to choose one person for each letter of your middle name to tag. Don’t forget to leave them a comment telling them they’re tagged, and to read your blog.



Keeper - my hubs passed me up once, but he came back, so I figure I must be a keeper?!!
Amicable Australian - Couldn't decided which word I liked better, I thought Amicable was a clever word, "peaceful and friendly", and I am proud to be an Australian!!!
Young - sorry couldn't resist, and there aren't many words starting with Y!!! I guess I could've had Yobbo, but I try really hard NOT to be a Yobbo!!! (for my Non-Australian readers, a Yobbo is well, an idiot, I guess!)
Efficient - well I try to be, anyway!

Now I'm sposed to tag some people so I'm gonna tag my favourite Australian Bloggers
Chelley, Lisa & Emma
And Amy

Sunday, 26 August 2007

Cakes and dress ups



This week, it has been "Book Week" in all the schools. In our school we have reading competitions and other games, but the highlight of the week, is Friday - Dress Up day. I love it! Every year, I'm amazed at the unique and creative costumes! This year, the school actually set a theme. You could dress up as: An explorer, Someone that discovered something, or something from Antartica. So... M went as Lucy (from Narnia, because she discovered Narnia) and H went as a Pirate, because they discover treasure! H, said he got a lollypop. I asked him why, he wasn't sure, but gave me the card that the lollypop was stuck to. It said "Congratualtions on being a Story Reading Finalist"!!! I was shocked! I'm not sure if I've mentioned on my blog before, but H REALLY struggles at school. It is only his first year, but all my teacher interviews, I'm told he's really lagging blah,blah, blah. BUT, I can see a vast improvement and his speech therapist reckons his is doing brilliantly! So I'm not too worried... but to be a finalist in a story competition?!! So on the way home, I asked him to read my the story that he read. And for a kid that can't read... he said the story, almost word for word!!! It is a book that we've read together quite often, but I didn't think he was paying very much attention!!! So, good on ya H - you're a champion!


On Saturday, it was my BIL's 40th birthday. And I was the sucker that put my hand up, to make the cake! My SIL wanted to do a "racing" theme, and said it would be great if we could do checked flag-style chocolate shards around the outside of the cake. Hmmm... I racked my brains and this is what I did...



I was so happy with the final result! We found a cake decorating place that can put a photo/image onto edible paper, and Steve LOVES MGs... so this one was an obvious choice. He was stoked! I'm kind of glad its over, I'm all weary and tired, been cooking and preparing (and worrying about the cake!) for days.... ahhh, it was nice to sleep in this morning!

Wednesday, 22 August 2007

Gentleman Boxer



H is ever the gentleman, and let his 3 yr old cousin, TJ, beat the crap outta him!

TJ, has got "The Thing" hands on, and when you smack them together (or on someone!) they make a crashing sound!!! Please excuse "Barbie and the Nutcracker" movie in the background!

Family Resemblance

I was looking after my 3 yr old niece last night, and got some great movie of her with H, but stupid Vista won't let me see the movie. I took a photo of my 2 + my niece. Everyone says that my niece is a mini version of my daughter! So here's the comparison, what do you think?

Pic one: is my M, my niece and my H



Pic two: is my M at 2



Other than the fact that my niece has brown eyes and M has blue eyes, some of their facial expressions are soooo much the same!!

Ooooo.... and a Happy 18th to me (well, our file!) Look how much growing a kid can do in 18 months!!! M, at 18 months and H, at 18 months. M, was off to a party and H, had just been to his first Royal Show. Ahhh... one of these days, we'll be taking Mini's 18 month photos... not celebrating months gone... enjoying months gone by.

Sunday, 19 August 2007

Not much doing

Ho-Hum. Not much going on, well, nothing exciting anyway! Saturday I baked cakes for our Sunday School bake sale. When I dropped them into Church, I was told I was the only one that had done anything!!! So back home I went, to bake some more!

Sunday, we went to Church, I bought some of my own cakes!!! But I was very happy to see that obviously there was some last minute baking done, and there were lots more cakes! We had lunch with T's sister and her five kidlets, then back home to do the ironing!

Yes... what an exciting weekend it was! I did watch Pride and Prejudice (again!) and now my daughter is hooked too!!! An old fashioned romantic like her Ma?!! Sorry in advance to her future dates!!!

Oh! And HAPPY BIRTHDAY to my Big Brother!

Wednesday, 15 August 2007

Bada bLing!

Sorry, I was a bit of a slacker, mentioning new jewellery, and not posting a pic?!! Here's my charity necklace. I love it. It's just like me... a bit twisted, a bit tense, classy yet casual?!!!





I also received my Lana's Jewelry order in the mail this week! What a gem-a-licious week it's been!!!

So, stop reading my dribble, and get on over to Lana's Jewelry and order yourself some beautiful hand made jewellery, by the gorgeous effervescent Lana! You won't be disappointed! Lana even boxes your goodies up, in these cutsie little boxes, and wraps then in tissue paper with a little ribbon! Value for money, that's for sure!

Monday, 13 August 2007

Ramblings

I'm starting to get a cold... its kind of there, but not there! Which is better than having full-blown "rudulph itice" I guess!

We didn't end up seeing Nancy Drew, it wasn't on... I think I'm confused, I think I only saw shorts to the movie, but it hasn't actually been released here yet!!! So we saw The Simpson Movie instead. Was ok, the kids were killing themselves laughing quite a bit, but I thought it was just like watching the tv episodes! Homer is right, in the first scene, he stands up and says we're all suckers for paying to go to the movies when we can watch it for free at home!!! Kids really like it though, so I guess that's all that counts!

I went to a fundraiser fashion parade yesterday. Didn't buy any clothes, but scored myself a very nice silver necklace. If I'd bought clothes only 10% of the sale price went to the fundraiser, but the necklace was donated, so 100% went to the cause. It was a good afternoon, and I went home happy with my necklace!

Happy Monday All!

Saturday, 11 August 2007

Winter Beach




The sun was shining today, so I thought it'd be good to get the kids out of the house, and take Chewy out, (in the hopes that he doesn't try it himself again!) So we hit the beach. It was blowing a gale, and it was a bit chilly (must have been, coz the kids didn't even attempt to get into the water!) The kids brought home buckets of shells. All is good.
NB: the scratches on H's face! Typical. He had school photos this week, and the day before the photos, he tripped on the playground, and gouged his face!

I thought we might do some more family bonding tonight, and head out to the cinema and see "Nancy Drew" M has been hanging out to see it since the holidays! But right now, I've got a date with Dyson. He really sucks.

Thursday, 9 August 2007

Could be worse?

Ever had one of those week's when, just when you think things couldn't get any worse... your world proves you wrong?!!!

Sorry bout the scary cat photo!!! Fitting my mood perfectly... right down to the glowing yellow eyes!!!

And no, Jeter's Momma... it's definitely NOT our cat!!! If wish I could catch the 2 cats that tease Chewy all night long, and have him barking like a mad thing... I'd definitely do this to them!!! (Sorry CJ! and any other cat lovers!!!) My dear SIL would be turning in her grave, God rest her sweet soul!!!

Speaking of Trish. Good lord, I've missed her this week. Even typing this, I'm crying again. I miss her common sense, her smile, her lighthearted view of life, her friendship, her solid support, her voice. I drove past the Showgrounds the other day, and was immediately reminded, that it was Trish that took my kids to the Show, while I was off in Sydney catching up with Team Salsa. Its the little things that catch me unawares, that get me upset the most. Sometimes, I think, when will it stop hurting, that she's gone? But then on the other hand, I think, if it hurts, it means that she is still alive in my memory, so then I don't want it to stop hurting. Good grief, I'm a nutcase!!!

Oh Tricia, how I wish you didn't have to go so soon.

Tuesday, 7 August 2007

Feelin a bit...


All washed up?
Not Happy?
Bad hair day?
Or just down right SCARY!!!

Monday, 6 August 2007

Chewy's travels





Does Chewy look a little sad to you? I think he does, and I'll tell you why!
We got home from Church on Sunday, and Chewy was gone. He wasn't anywhere to be found in our backyard - and our yard is not very big! I did notice that a sheet of iron had fallen off the fence behind our shed... and my guess was Chewy found it too. I felt sick, what if he'd been hit by a car... he's not very street smart. We went out and checked the streets near our house. No Chewy. He is registered, and wears and ID tag with our phone no. on it, so thought if anyone finds him they'll ring.
Late afternoon, we did get a call, from our local council, saying Chewy had been found, by a neighbouring council, and was taken to the pound. I could pick him up the next day. I didn't sleep very well, all I could think of was poor Chewy laying on the cold concrete at the pound. He'd be worried and scared, all those other dogs howling, all the smells of the other dogs.
I barracaded up the hole and also the side of the shed, coz I suspected he may have squeezed through there. I waited til 9am, and went out to the pound. Turns out, I was sposed to bring his papers. I was asked to "ID" Chewy, then go back to the Council Offices to pick up some forms, pay fees, then come back. (note: the pound is about 1/2 hour from my house, the council office is about 20 mins from the pound). But wait... there's more. I had a Drs appt at 11am. By the time I'd ID'd Chewy (which I felt absolutely rotten about, saying hello etc... then walking off and leaving him in that cage), and going to the Council Office (where they made me wait about 25 mins, for ONE bit of paper), I had to get to my Drs, and that was about a 1/2 drive from the Council Office. From the Drs, I drove back to the pound (about 40 mins from the Drs), and after another 20 mins, I was FINALLY able to go get my Chewy. He was so freaked out. He didn't even want to eat his treat. He just wanted to get outta there! It was almost like he didn't know who I was, until we pulled into our carport, he got so excited, his tail started wagging, he ran around the car and his kennel. He sniffed his food bowl and drank a tonne of water.
Its so good to have him home. I've put him in the laundry, just in case his taste of freedom was enticing him again.
Someone had found him and phoned the council. The council picked him up, about 15kms away. They're not sure if he actually ran that far himself, or whether the people that found him, found him closer to home, and drove to their house that far away? While I was driving all over the countryside today, I was thinking... they better not slug me a fortune for taking him to the pound, they could've rung, and I'd come get him straight away. What happens if you don't have the money to get our dog out? Do they keep him? That's blackmail!!! "We're holding your dog, til you pay. If you don't we'll give him to someone else"!!! Then I was thinking, what if he wasn't registered. They wouldn't be able to ring me. What do they do then? Put him up for adoption straight away? Maybe it's cheaper to go down there, and buy him, rather than pay all the council's damn blackmail fines? I think it's terrible that they use emotional blackmail to make people pay exorbident fines, to get your escapee dog back. Its just wrong. I would say MOST dog owners, love their dogs and are worried sick when they pups stray. Many times, beyond their own fault. Anyway, I succumbed to all their emotional blackmail, and will pay anything to get him back. I still think its wrong though!!!
Poor Chewy. He's very tired and forlorn. Hopefully the experience of the pound will stop him trying to escape! If anything, the kids have a renewed love for their dog, and vow they are going to play with all the time! We'll see how long that lasts, shall we?!!!

Friday, 3 August 2007

Could it be?

Thanks for the laughs on the last post!!! I'm looking forward to reading novels by Chelsea Duval!!! I think it's funny that most of you named your pets "real" names! (excluding Smirnoff!)

Something weird happened yesterday. I had just dropped the kids at school, and was sitting at some traffic lights, I was deep in thought, when I felt a real "presence" around me (I say it's God, others may say it's intuition or a sense) anyway, I stopped thinking about whatever it was I was thinking about, and sat quietly, and just listened. I didn't hear any booming voices or even any quiet voices, but heard the song playing on the radio... "My Brown-eyed Girl"!!! I listened to the song and got goosebumps from head to toe! Weird, hey?

I've noted that one, in my diary... could it be... is Mini born? Is she seeing the same sun, I'm looking at? It was weird, but good weird?!!


** JUST RELEASED ** CC@@ have allocated children to families whose files were logged in before November 21 2005. Another 7 days. Congrat's to all families who are drooling over their new baby's photos!!! The 21 Nov, is significant for us - not only is it our wedding anniversary, but it was the day the South Aust. Govt decided we were "ok" to adopt a little girl from China! We passed the Govt. review panel. 92 more days til our LID. (22 Nov - 22 Feb). It doesn't sound like long... but believe me, the CC@@ ensure that it is long!!!
I've got everything crossed that they get through the rest of November this month! PPPLLLLEEEEEZZZZE!