"Adopting a Child won't change the world; but for that Child the world will change."

Sunday, 14 September 2008

3 word Sunday

I'M SO TIRED!

How funky is this pic?! Found it in Goo.gle Images when I keyed in "tired"!

I'm feeling exhausted. Spent. Wasted. Droopy. Lifeless.

Was up cleaning til 1145pm - for our Open today... one person came through. Urgh. I guess I should be thankful for small mercies... least the house is clean?!!

I looked at some new display homes yesterday - I think I've found a new "winner"! It's nearly $20k cheaper than our last favourite - but the finishing and appliances etc are much better quality. So - its a win-win situation!

Test drove a Toy.ota Kl.uger yesterday... very nice. Alot easier to drive than I expected. I thought it'd be quite heavy in the steering, but it was easier than my Subaru!! I've put an offer in on one... just waiting to see if its accepted.

... ahhhh... I'm so tired.


EDIT: I'VE BEEN AWARDED!


THANK YOU CHELLEY! I'd like to "pay it forward" and award the following "Gems"

* Janet * - Janet you crack me up ~ particularly fond of your "kick in the pants"!!!

* Mary-Mia * - I can never read you blog without grinning from ear to ear!

* Heather * - Are you sure you're not a comedian?!!

* Connie * - Our LIDs are close... our personalities even closer?!! I love ya, girl!

Friday, 12 September 2008

Friday already?... again?!!

Its funny, I get to Monday, and it feels like the week ahead is soooo long... and then BOOM! Its Friday - the week has whizzed past in a blurr and I still haven't achieved, all I'd hoped to achieve!!!

Miss M has a friend staying over, and we're off to the Show today, to meet with one of H-Man's friends! We had an absolutely ball last year - and are really looking forward to it again today! The weather is divine! The sunny is out in full, a little puff of wind and forecast temps of 22C. Nice!

On a completely different note -
I just sold my car, and when our house sells, I'll buy a 7 seater. Anyway, during the sale process, many people asked, why I was selling my car. I'd say, "because I'm after a 7 seater - we have 2 kids, another one on the way - and we are forever couriering other kiddies around the place as well!"
Immediately after mentioning "another one on the way" - people ALWAYS look at my stomach!!! I notice their glance, and add "That's just fat - we're adopting a child"!!! I love it! They never know what to say!!! I shouldn't do it really - but its just so entertaining!

I'm STILL UBER excited about the prospect of seeing Mini by Christmas!!!

**EDIT:* A couple of my esteemed readers have asked about the house. Had considerable interest, but no-one interested enough to put in an offer.... YET! Still have regular opens, and now that it's listed "for a price" I feel that we're only getting "serious" buyers through.... all the nosey neighbours have been through! After two weeks "on the market"... the agent asked us to drop the price!!! HA! Good on ya?!!! It wasn't well received here, and we said we'd revisit that thought after at least another month. Apparently, that's "the industry standard" to ask the vendor to drop after two weeks!!!! Unbelievable. Our market here has been excellent for about 2-3 years. Houses selling within 4-6 weeks on the market, many on the first open. In the last 6 months, things have started to slow - the "medium" is currently about 90 days on the market. Mr T told our agent, that ALL Agents have had it too easy too long.... now they actually have to work for their money!!! Then I added insult to injury, by adding "I'll drop my price if you'll drop yours!"... I was told, that wouldn't happen!!! I reckon, if I'm paying them multiple thousands of dollars... they can darn well earn it! We have a great house. (Everyone that has come through, loves it... we just need someone to love it, that has $$$!)

Sunday, 7 September 2008

Happy Fathers Day!

Today was Father's Day, here in Oz! So here's a photo tribute to the great Dad's in my life...


The sexy Father of my children...


My Daddio...

The Daddio of my Children's Sexy Daddy...


HAPPY FATHERS DAY TO YOU ALL!!!

Friday, 5 September 2008

Friday already!

The week has flown by! (yay!) It's Friday, and it's the first day of the Royal Adelaide Show. The show runs for 9 days. We manage about 160+ staff over the 9 days... it's pretty full on! Its a great Show, as it combines the rides / Show bags as well as the Agricultural side of our State. One of the jobs I do during the Show, is "typing for the cows"... well, that's what I call it, but my Official title is "Beef Steward"!!! Which doesn't sound nearly as cool?!!!

The farmers bring their bulls through (leading them by a rope, attached through a nose ring), up a "run" to be "scanned" and weighed. Scanning is like an ultrasound, to measure fat and EMA (eye muscle area). I type in the results, and sit with Councillors, who record the same results and write on the competitors cards, for judging. The heaviest bull was 1300kgs! He was massive! He was so long, his barely fit in the scale holding pen! Anyway, why am I dribbling on about bulls?! Well, the funniest thing happened -

As the farmers were all lined up with their bulls; the bull being scanned, farted! Unfortunately, it was a very wet fart, and was definitely more of a "SHart"! and poo sprayed up the lady's leg, who was next in row!!! She let out a laugh and says "Ha! dirty thing it's sh!t on me!!!" Well, she spoke too soon, and the bull really let one rip - and TOTALLY covered this poor lady in poo!!!! LIke, head-to-toe in poo!!! She stood there with her mouth open, she couldn't believe what had just happened! I called out, she might want to close her mouth... just in case it happened again!!! Well, we all had a laugh (even the lady)... hey, what else can you do, when you're stuck in line (no way to get out) and a bull has just totally sprayed you with poo?!! There is a saying "you can't work with kids or animals"... I tend to agree!!!

*sorry to those eating!*

Mr T was off at 5.15am this morning, and probably won't be home til about 11pm. This will go on for the next 9 days! Its the one week of the year, that he is 100% dedicated to the job, and nothing will take him from The Show. So naturally, we always assumed, we'd be travelling to China in September - because it's the one time we really can't go!!! But God has smiled upon us, and were through Sept (as in, we know we won't be travelling this month!!!) and hopefully travelling Dec/Jan. Which still isn't fantastic, as far as timing goes - Mr T has arthritis - and China is awfully chilly in Dec/Jan!!! Not to worry - we'll just take lots of lotion and pills!!! NOTHING is stopping me now, Baby!!!

Tuesday, 2 September 2008

Roll on September!


As we roll on into September, I thought I'd share with you the pic on my China Calendar this month. Isn't it fantastic?! Its the Giant Buddha at Mt Leshan in the Sichuan Province. The pic was taken by the awesome photographer Micahel Y@mashita.
Spring
Excellent weather?!
Pansies
Too busy!
Enjoy
Mild nights
Break from school
Excitement... referrals?!!
Royal Show
I'm daring to post about the recent rumours... a 9th Feb cutoff?!! Oh My! Thats 9 days we can cross off?!!!! Only 13 more logged in days before ours?!!! Oooo~ a November referral MIGHT actually be a possibility? Thats only 7 days referred in Oct, then 6 in November?!!! Even if we work on averages (5 days per month) - we SHOULD still see Mini before Christmas... .just not in the flesh.
Either way, we'll be flat out til the day we see her, if we sell the house in the next month, with 6-8 week settlement... lands us right around the same time to move!!! Now my knees are really knocking!!!
On top of all that, I sold my car on the weekend, so I'm driving my MIL's car while she's away ~ so once we've sold the house, I need to go car shopping too!!!
Hmmm.... let me think if there's anything else, I can try and fill my days with?!!! Oh wait... Hman starts cricket next term and Miss M is back at basketball!!! All this with Mr T flitting to and fro between here and Indonesia!
...I need a valium!
**EDIT** ITS CONFIRMED! A family has received their referral, and they were logged in on 9 Feb 2006!!! Yipee!!! I am bouncing off the walls with excitement!!! SUCH good news! Cc.@a are "officially" 13 days from our logged in date!!! Come on Cc.a@~ you can do 13 in the next month, can't you?!!! My goodness, I think I would pee my pants, if they did!!!
Far out!!! I was just thinking, Mini has DEFINITELY been born, and is actually waiting either in an orphanage or with a foster family, just for us. Her Nannies or foster family will be talking to her about us! Gosh!!! This is really going to happen, hey?!!

Sunday, 31 August 2008


The highly exhaulted "Matching Room"
(although this is an old photo... so its probably from their old building?!!)
My question for the day:
"What are they doing in there?"!!!
Its been such a hectic pace around here, I really am struggling to keep up. And now, I can't even get any damn rest - I woke up at 3am, and could not get back to sleep... so here I am, at 430am posting on my blog! So much going on in my tiny brain, no wonder its overloaded! House plans, Mini plans, moving house, packing, lists of stuff I want to get rid of when we move, timber floors, timber blinds or verticals? Mini travel - will it be Christmas? .... all this plus more.
We caught up with our beautiful batch peoples last night for dinner, (minus one family - hope M's arm heals quick... ouch! H-man really missed him!) Was a great night - and of course, I reckon at least 50% of the conversation was regarding our allocation and travel. One family has already "been there done that" - so (once again) we bombarded them with lots of questions as to what to expect. I think, predominately, that's why I can't sleep. We got ourselves all riled up, that we are so close! We reckon either a Christmas referral or (2 of us think) Christmas travel. Could it be true? Geez, I hope so. I've always thought, with a logged in date of 22nd, we'll be so lucky as to be one of those batches, that Cc.A@ allocates til 21st, and we'll have to wait yet another month. I know there's pro's and cons to that situation, but I know that'll be us. I've convinced myself Cc.A@ will get through min. 7 days this month.... I really really hope so! I think the entire China adoption community is hanging out for this next batch of allocations - to see what happens "post Olympics". We probably won't geta good idea, til next month though - when they've had a full month back at work.
OK... just realised I'm really dribbling on. Sorry. I can't even seem to "bore" myself to sleep?!

Thursday, 28 August 2008

Living

Nothing much going on... we'll actually that's not entirely correct - HEAPS going on, just nothing exciting!

What have I done this week?
*The usual housekeeping
*Seen the Chiropractor
*Taking kids to various extra curricular activities
*Babysat my nieces and nephews
*Baked a cake (and ate it!)
*Had several coffees (all hail the DeLongh!)
*Paid wages
*Paid bills and did loads of paperwork (and still not finished)
*Hubs did a quick trip interstate, and back
*Our land settled, last Friday (so it's all OURS now!) - so been checking out sheds and rainwater tanks on line
*Going for a drive today, to actually look at some sheds
*Organised future Open inspections with Real Estate Agent
*Did Poo Patrol
*Filled in huge hole under fence, that Chewy Dog decided to dig (Milo doesn't have time to dig... he's too busy poo'ing)
*Did some running around for work (banking, buy new kettle etc)

And there are a tonne of other very uninteresting things I did, but don't want to bore you anymore!

Here's what I'm going to look at today...





One of our ides was, to build a "live in" shed, while we build our house. I don't think AF.IS (our govt adoption agency) are too keen... but we'll see what the shed people can do. We thought, once we move into our house - we can use the "top" of the shed as a guest house, and the bottom... as a shed! If its a no-go, we'll have to rent.

Monday, 25 August 2008

Reminded

We've had a huge hulla-ba-loo in our Church this week, with links to a Pastor who apparently faked a 2 year illness.

I'm so reminded this week, that we are saved by the Grace of God ~ who's mercy endures forever. We have all sinned, lets not throw stones.


For we know, ALL things will work together for good, for those who love God, and are called according to His purpose.
Romans 8:28

Saturday, 23 August 2008

Shes 40!


HAPPY 40TH BIRTHDAY
To my wonderful Sister-in-law


D has had a bad trot the last couple of years. Her strength and determination, astounds me. She has 5 children, that she is raising - single handedly. She looks amazing. She is incredibly smart, and works some kind of magic with her budget, so that the few dollars she has - stretches the farthest. The kids are well clothed, and fed. They want for nothing. Her house is impeccably clean and tidy. She works mega hours, yet come school holidays, she attempts to take her children somewhere special, everyday. Yes, she sounds to good to be true - Wonder Womanish?! Well, she is! She is one-of-a-kind, that is for sure.

She's never had a real "birthday party", since she was 18, but then it was combined with her Engagement Party - so I'm not sure that really counts?!! So, this year, I said, I would plan something for her. I thought it'd be easiest if we just went out to dinner - and people can just pay for their own meals. D sure can't afford to pay for 30 people's meals, she barely feeds her own children! Yet, I still had one invitee, tell me he wasn't coming, because he thought it was rude to ask people to pay for their own meal.... and tells me not to be offended. Well, I was. Silly me, for thinking its all about giving my sister-in-law and wonderful night with her friends? Anyway, moving right along. My simple dinner, has become a little more eloborate as I've had new ideas! I thought I'd get her some balloons. I ordered the cake, but will decorate it myself. I was going to buy a "signature bear", but decided to make a "scrapbook" signing book (more personal), I've bought candle decorations for the table. And created a "mourning her youth" theme, and asked everyone to wear black! I've made a couple of "tombstone" type plaques for the table too!!! All this, at the busiest time of the year for our business and family life!!!

Why do I do this to myself?

Because D is worth it.


Thursday, 21 August 2008

30 months behind us

A day early... I'm shopping tomorrow!


Wednesday, 20 August 2008

When in doubt



This is for a few friends, that I know, are going through a tough time right now.



"Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock; and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; an it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.
Now everyone who hears these saying of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand; and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall".

Matthew 7:24-27





I'm thinking of you... there is always light at the end of a storm.

Tuesday, 19 August 2008

House update

We had our Auction on Sat... well... we did / and we didn't! We had about 30 people here, but due to new legislation, no one registered to bid... so there was no auction!!!

We are not deterred! The auction process served a purpose. No one (inc. agents) could really tell us how much our house was worth. Its quite unique in this area, as it was an older house (built in the 50s) and we've completed renovated and extended it (almost double the size of the house!) We kept the original wide pine floorboards and hunted high and low, to match them in the new extension. We have 11foot ceilings in the original part of the house, so we kept that through into the extension. So - we have a house, that everyone who sees it, loves... but no-one knows how much to pay! Since the auction fizzed out, we now have the house "on the market", for a fixed price - which we determined, from comments left by all the people that have looked at the house in the last 5 weeks.

I have no doubt that our house will sell... its a matter of when and how much! No matter what, we will make more than double, what we paid for the house... so we're happy! Our market is still good here, although it has taken a "turn". A recent survey said that house prices have increased by 16% in the last 12 months, but sales have dropped by 16% in the last 12 months. So it's kind of just flatten out, I guess.

Our land settles on Friday! WooHOo! We'd like to get a big shed and big rainwater tank, up asap, to start catching water. We plan to camp out there with Mr T's sister and family on the October long weekend! (I'd really like a loo in the shed, but I think that'd be pushing it! ~ we'd need to get a sewer system happening etc)

Sunday, 17 August 2008

3 word Sunday



Look what I did a week and a half ago! My sis-in-law and I went along together, and got "inked"! She is turning 40 next week, and thought it might be a nice way to mark, the beginning of the rest of her life! And she insisted that I go to! Mr T was away, so I thought it'd be a nice "surprise", when we met in Queensland! I've always loved Dragonflies. My sis-in-law, who's been going through quite a traumatic personal crisis, looked up the "meaning" of a dragonfly. Apparently they symbolise strength, determination and new beginnings. Perfect for her situation! She got a dragonfly too, but a different design- and hers has colour! Looks fantastic! So much so.. that I'm thinking of going back to get some colour put in my wings!

Because my design was so "straight", I wanted it up my spine. It was either my ankle or back... I went with back. I have more options as to whether I want it showing or not! Sis-in-law got hers on her shoulder.

It did hurt (specially the wings - felt like a stanley knife!) but sis-in-law and I were encouraging each other before we went in "we've given birth, without drugs... surely it can't be any worse than that?"!!! And she has had FIVE kids! It was all pretty quick, really, mine took about 15 mins and hers about 25 (as hers is a bit bigger).

I kept stressing to sis-in-law, (who kept asking me which design she should have) - "it's on YOU.... forever... you've gotta choose it.... and love it!!!" I wanted to incorporate the chinese symbol of "hope"... but it didn't look right. Maybe I could get that somewhere else?!!!

Saturday, 16 August 2008

STOP THE PRESS!

Is it true? Can it be?

C.C.@.@ is reported to have allocated through til the 31ST JANUARY 2006.

OMG! They are about to start allocating into February?!!! OUR MONTH?!!!

Be still my heart. They are now only 22 days from our Logged In Date.

Oooohhhhh I SO HOPE we are in China at Christmas time.

I'm all sweaty! I have goosebumps!

I know it's a few more months yet... but gee whiz! We could see our daughter (EDIT: or son!) by the end of the year?!!!

Wednesday, 13 August 2008

We're Back!

Phew! So much to do and so little time?!!



We flew out for a super quick trip, to Australia's tropical paradise, Queensland! We went to a wedding, had lunch with some fellow waiting parents, visited 2 theme parks, went to the movies, and did a spot of shopping!!! Ooooo, the SUN! It was still quite cool, up there, but the SUN was soooo toasty and warm!



OK, so the last few days have brought about several Congratulations!



Firstly, Congrat's to our good friends on their nuptials! (oops! I thought I had some photos here, but they're on Mr T's computer! will post shortly, they are so gorgeous!)







Secondly, HUGE hugs and congratulations to F&A at Imagine Alyzabeth An.... they no longer have to IMAGINE! She is absolutely adorable. We are so so happy for you guys!










Also, a HUGE CONGRATULATIONS to all those families logged in on 26th & 27th Jan. 2006. We are two tiny days closer, in our quest for Mini... but I'm sure to those families logged in on 26th & 27th Jan, don't think they are so tiny!!! Maybe its my recent "quick trip" - but I'm not fased. We WILL see our Mini, one day.... Alyzabeth An is the most recent proof that miracles DO happen and dreams DO come true.

Got a huge week ahead of us. Our house goes to Auction on Sat. I've got 2 people looking at my car (to buy). I've got computer software training, wages to do, cleaning and washing to do, Doctor's appt, health check for insurance policy... plus a couple of coffee's with a couple of friends! Not to mention the kid's school and sporting activities!!!

Stop the world! It's spinning to fast!!!

Wednesday, 6 August 2008

Take Five!




We're flat out this weekend, so I'll be taking a wee break! (not a toilet break, a scottish "wee" as in tiny break! Although I'm sure there will be wee, at some point.)


Enjoy the Olympic Opening Ceremony! I'm really looking forward to it!


Have a great weekend! Got every thing crossed for you Joannah!


I'm going to give "3 word Sunday" a miss this week! Til next week...



Chow!

Sunday, 3 August 2008

All ours!

So this is it... our future home! There is a crop growing on the land at the moment... a friend asked what it was - I answered "I dunno - green stuff!"... yep... we're ready for the farm life!!! (I think the crop is lucerne/hay) Another friend asked if the land was flat, I said "gently undulating, I think is the correct Real Estate term?"!! Just in front of the arrow, on the high spot is where we're going to build our future home. (see plan in post below)


Here's the local Church - pretty isn't it?



There are ruins all around the place.





I really am, looking forward to the "country life".

I'm not sure if M is up to do the 3 word Sunday, but I thought I'd still post a pic. This totally sums up my week...



And because, I'm extra special, Milo decided to chew the crap outta the family room door frame - coz I've got nothing better to do, than sand back and repaint the door frame. Thanks Milo - you're a Champ!


Saturday, 2 August 2008

House plan

THIS is the house plan we are currently in love with. (click on FLOORPLAN tab, and we will probably have the "cottage" facade, in the FACADE tab). I said, "currently". Please note, that our "favourite" plan has changed about 6 times - and is quite likely to change again!!!

I love all the space in this house. We'd like to put a wall (roughly half way) through LIVING 1, to make a Study at the front of the house. The rest of LIVING 1, will be a Home Theatre. Another thing that I LOVE, is the big bedrooms. I don't know about America - but here, the new houses, tend to have teeny tiny bedrooms. The only thing I have a few reservations about, is the kitchen, and lack of cupboard space. I have MEGA cupboards, here, and will certainly miss them. Although, there is plenty of storage in the passage way. *Did you see the double robes in the Main Suite*?!!! Woo Hoo!!

The back LIVING areas will look out to the rolling hills in the distance. Ahhh... I CAN'T WAIT!

Once we sell our place, we'll rent, while we build. We even considered renting a 2 bedroom unit - to save $$ - but I got the impression from the Agency, that wouldn't really go down to well. So we'll rent a small 3 bedroom house. At least, I hope we can - with 2 dogs... it may be a little tricky!!

*damn*! I missed the final of Amazing Race! I'm pretty sure, we're behind, here in Oz - (no wise cracks please!) Who won?!!! The Asian Father-daughter team, the hippies (CJ/AJ or something & Rachel) or the Grandfather-Grandson team?!! Arrrrggh!!! PLEASE TELL ME!!!

Friday, 1 August 2008

Can I get a "bbbrrrrr"?!

The view from my kitchen window today... looks pretty grim! (minutes after I finished filming - huge claps of thunder broke out! - and no... it wasn't "thunder from down under!", as my kids affectionately say, when someone cracks one off!!!)



Thursday, 31 July 2008

Hope

"But if we hope for what we do not see, then we eagerly wait for it with perseverance."
Romans 8:25
No one said it would be easy.